Remember this post?
It’s been a few weeks since I wrote about how that is actually going.
The whole point of the book is to keep your numbers up for a while.
I was doing good. I had about 3-4 dates a week for a couple of weeks…but as people phased out, which is natural, instead of replacing them (that sounds bad – What I mean is keeping a steady number of dates.) I started focusing my attention on one.
Which, wouldn’t be bad if it was mutual. It turns out, I believe, that he was really into the game. He thought it since I was dating others I was more challenging. Which is good if I would have played it right. He tried and wooed me and it was good. I gave in too soon though. (Not like that.) I just quit trying to be a chase and started hanging out with only him. I didn’t do anything I can think of that would automatically make him like me any less.
I am sure you can guess what happened next: We went from talking everyday and hanging all the time to nothing. Nada. Zilch. He won’t respond to my text anymore nor does he text me anymore.
Oooooohhh…yeah… that sucks.
I should have done what I said I would do and still saw other guys. I should have made him work a little a harder a little longer. Until Maybe? I don’t know. This is where I always suck in the dating world. I can get them but I can’t keep them.
Anyways, so now I am starting over. Back to the drawing board. Getting my numbers back up. I am not going to dwell on any of this and besides it hasn’t been that long anyways… he could come back around. If he does – that’s fine. He will just have to woo me again is all.
Anybody else out there ever been in a similar situation? How do you deal with guys disappearing? Or maybe any guys out there can explain to me why you do this and give me some advice!